The Happiness Project
by Gretchen Rubin
Gretchen Rubin had plans. One of these days, she’d
begin remembering her friends’ birthdays, reading
Shakespeare and visiting museums. As she passively
waited for the “right time,” she realized something.
She already had everything that she thought
should make her happy – a husband, children, a
career – but she didn’t truly enjoy what she had.
Would she someday look back and realize she’d
been happy, but didn’t know it at the time? What,
she wondered, makes one person happier than
Through research, Rubin
came to believe that
happiness is 50 percent
genetics and 10 to 20
percent a blend of gender,
age, income, marital
status and ethnicity – the
remainder is a result of
how we think and act.
In other words, we each
have our own range of
happiness, and we can reach the top of that range
through our thoughts and actions. But how do we
do that? Rubin embarked on a yearlong mission to
find out the answer. She focused on one resolution
each month, including energy/vitality, love, work/
ambition, parenthood, leisure/play, friendship,
money, eternity, interests/hobbies, mindfulness
and frame of mind. Her search for satisfaction may
inspire you to begin your own “Happiness Project.”
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HAP Wise Woman
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